Last week’s blog discussed Leading Your Company and Your People to a Higher Place. EXHIB-IT! believes in developing a culture where our company manages and grows our business through investing the time to mentor employees to build a strong sustainable company to compete in this fast-paced competitive environment.
This does not happen overnight. As stated before, to create a high performance team takes focus, drive and a lot of work, but the pay off is valuable to the company and to the employees. Having internal working relationships with a positive focus on an outcome is key. Working relationships that do work are characterized by open and respectful communication that builds accountability and trust. These three characteristics go hand in hand.
Many companies think there is not much you can do to improve the quality of communication, accountability or trust within a company and it is accepted to let things be status quo. People either possess the qualities of accountability or trust or they do not, right? Wrong. You can make a difference.
These principles of working relationships are the framework within which our company’s managers and employees relate to each other on the job. Without these basic principles, confusion about what an employee should or should not be doing arises. The five basic principles for working relationships were discussed in last week’s blog. http://www.fullbrainmarketing.com/_blog/blog/
If anything is identified through the five principles of working relationships to work on to gain better communication and understanding, try using what we do at EXHIB-IT!, the Problem Resolution System.
1. The Problem Resolution System. In personal development arena, accountability to change and grow lies squarely on the employee’s own shoulders. As manager can suggest options and offer guidance and support, but employee must make the commitment and be willing and able to change. If personal development issue, requires level of empathy and sensitivity by manager. Be direct, but combine directness with caring and a lot of room for employee to show their weakness yet still maintain dignity. Demand excellence, but provide unconditional acceptance and kindness. Look at employees as “work in progress” and be able to invest yourself in their development.
• Identify issue or problem to be addressed. State it directly and clearly.
• Get acknowledgment of the issue and need to address it. If manager raising issue, employee must willingly “admit” issue
exists and that something needs to be done about it. If employee is one who brings up issue to table – congratulations! Your
relationship is on right track.
• Discuss the ideas you both may have about what is underlying the issue. Employee talks first. When employee done,
acknowledge and respond to what they said and add any insights you may have.
• Get employee’s commitment to deal with the issue. This is the second decision point for employee (first is to acknowledge
issue). Without agreement, there cannot be movement forward! Refer to Primary Aim to see how this contributes to what employee
wants for themselves. Motivation is self-initiated.
• Create a plan to deal with the issue. Use Key Frustrations process to reveal true nature and impact of problem and uncover a
systems approach to resolving it. Whether a “systems solution” or “personal development plan” have employee document plan in
writing and give it to your manager for review. Plan is to include overall result aimed for, benchmarks or specific steps for
achieving result(s), reporting loops, standards that describe how benchmarks will be done, time frames that define exactly when
each benchmark will be complete, and consequences for failure to keep commitment to improve the situation. Written plan is vital.
Without it, ability to follow up will be compromised. If plan cannot be completed within scope of meeting, either have employee
continue working on it on his own, or schedule additional time to work on it together. (Work on separate sheet of paper for this
area.)
• Get employee’s commitment to implementing the plan. This is employee’s final decision point of meeting. If he/she won’t make
commitment, either the issue will NOT be resolved or another alternative must be brought to the table. Do not leave unresolved.
• Follow up on the plan. After meeting over and written plan complete, follow up with employee within short time to discuss how
progress is coming.
• Re-evaluate the employee’s performance and results. *Determine if plan is effective and if desired results are being achieved.
Is plan being followed? How is employee responding to it? Employee attaining on consistent basis the agreed upon standards?
Teaching employees skill of systemic and results-oriented thinking and problem solving not only makes them more valuable and
productive, but also gives them a strategy they can use in many areas of their lives. Creating a motivational environment where
people can learn what it takes to become a more effective person, not just a more effective worker.
2. Self-Perception Enhancement. People yearn to feel good about themselves and need more messages to help get in touch about reality about what is wonderful about themselves. People need to develop a healthy mistrust of their negative conclusions. Learn and practice “self-perception enhancement” techniques to reinforce employee’s positive perceptions of himself or herself. *Four ways to do.
• Offer employees unconditional acceptance. No matter what they do, you will always value and support them. Behavior may not
be acceptable at times but can change behavior. Essential qualities are constant that I honor and respect.
• Insist on excellence. If employees know this, sends message that “I am capable of it and I’m too good a person to settle for
less.”
• Define and enforce standards. Standards enable understanding exactly how they are being evaluated and what kinds of
behavior are both acceptable and unacceptable. Provides a sense of security and independence.
• Praise employees’ positive attributes rather than performance or results. Tell employees you appreciate them for not only
work they do, but for person they are made that result possible. Give specific feedback and not generalized feedback and focus on
attributes they possess to achieve the dramatic results. Also pass along positive feedback from others including coworkers,
clients, etc. Effects of low self-esteem produce self-defeating behavior people resort to when they do not value themselves,
consciously or unconsciously. “Cynical attitude” are most often seen in people who, deep inside, do not value themselves. Maybe
never taught. People with prevailing negative tendencies will rarely reach their fullest potential and will find ways to sabotage their
own and company’s performance causing results in business to suffer. People with prevailing view of themselves as positive can
be counted on to do their best and face new and challenging situations with confidence, courage and optimism and make kind of
contribution that helps company and themselves grow and flourish.
3. Bringing Mentoring to Your People.
• Adapt the systems in this process to your business. Use tools developed in your company and strongly advise against leaving
anything out of the model provided. • Set the due date for implementing Employee Development Meetings. Be consistent and
maintain meetings. May phase into company-wide.
• Train Managers. This is critical to success of implementation of this process and business. Every manager must implement it in
the same way, week after week, year after year, until you decide to change it. It is a system in your business, part of the inviolable
rules of your game.
• Conduct first Employee Development Meeting with all employees. Mangers conduct this first meeting when employees are first
hired. Managers conduct meeting with existing employees that report to them.
• Conduct regular, ongoing Employee Development Meetings with all employees. Schedule weekly, bi-weekly or monthly
employee development meetings. Most cases, weekly suggested but may be too often for field sales personnel.
4. Everyone Wins. By adopting “manager as mentor” model, agendas and techniques for Employee Development, you can free your people to move beyond their limitations and help them grow to be their absolute best. All of these benefits will come back many-fold to you and your managers, as well as employees. Your company will distinguish itself as a place where people at every level want to work, not where they have to work.
DJ Heckes, Author & CEO
EXHIB-IT! Tradeshow Marketing Experts
www.exhib-it.com
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